Forgive me for crossposting this, but I'm really needing some help.
My husband, who is the sweetest, goofiest guy imaginable, and shy to boot, is having a problem at work. When he got hired at this company, four years ago, he got a job that several people wanted. And it did make it difficult for him to have been hired from the outside for a job that current employees wanted to have. He's the kind of guy who keeps himself to himself, but it hasn't stopped making him a target for gossip and spite.
We're heavily involved with the BDSM community, and unfortunately, someone in our community felt the need to "out" him as a submissive. This of course made a field day for the gossip network, and his feelings were horribly hurt. But he did his best to ignore it, and went on about his business. He's very good at what he does, and upper management seems to love him. His problem is the gossip and spite.
Here is what I've done so far:
Blessed a plant (and empowered it with sex magic) so that people who wish him ill feel uncomfortable in the area where the plant is, and he feels calmer and more centered around the plant. (Unfotunately, this can only apply to his cube. he can't take a plant or anything else into the lab.)
Given him an empowered Ganesh statuette for success at work.
Cast reflecting spells on the worst gossips so that anything they say will reflect badly on them with management. (This has resulted in one finding another job, and another getting a week off without pay.)
I'm running out of ideas and ways to fight back without getting malevolent. Unfotunately, the guy who got a week off seems to be blaming my husband for his unscheduled vacation and working harder to start trouble between my husband and a person who was recently hired to start a new division where my husband wants to work. He's been spreading rumors that indicate that my husband runs to HR if anyone offends him. (Not true at all. He didn't complain to HR even when he was outed as being kinky.)
Anyone got any ideas for spells, charms, or what not that I am missing?
I'm good at this, but I'm getting so angry (I know, not a good place to practice from) that I'm considering taking the advice of the lady I buy herbs from (a hoo doo woman) and do something really nasty.
HELP!!
Domina
My husband, who is the sweetest, goofiest guy imaginable, and shy to boot, is having a problem at work. When he got hired at this company, four years ago, he got a job that several people wanted. And it did make it difficult for him to have been hired from the outside for a job that current employees wanted to have. He's the kind of guy who keeps himself to himself, but it hasn't stopped making him a target for gossip and spite.
We're heavily involved with the BDSM community, and unfortunately, someone in our community felt the need to "out" him as a submissive. This of course made a field day for the gossip network, and his feelings were horribly hurt. But he did his best to ignore it, and went on about his business. He's very good at what he does, and upper management seems to love him. His problem is the gossip and spite.
Here is what I've done so far:
Blessed a plant (and empowered it with sex magic) so that people who wish him ill feel uncomfortable in the area where the plant is, and he feels calmer and more centered around the plant. (Unfotunately, this can only apply to his cube. he can't take a plant or anything else into the lab.)
Given him an empowered Ganesh statuette for success at work.
Cast reflecting spells on the worst gossips so that anything they say will reflect badly on them with management. (This has resulted in one finding another job, and another getting a week off without pay.)
I'm running out of ideas and ways to fight back without getting malevolent. Unfotunately, the guy who got a week off seems to be blaming my husband for his unscheduled vacation and working harder to start trouble between my husband and a person who was recently hired to start a new division where my husband wants to work. He's been spreading rumors that indicate that my husband runs to HR if anyone offends him. (Not true at all. He didn't complain to HR even when he was outed as being kinky.)
Anyone got any ideas for spells, charms, or what not that I am missing?
I'm good at this, but I'm getting so angry (I know, not a good place to practice from) that I'm considering taking the advice of the lady I buy herbs from (a hoo doo woman) and do something really nasty.
HELP!!
Domina
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Re: Need Some Suggestions
Mon, January 1, 2007 - 10:44 AMHm.. several posts appear to have been deleted in this thread so I'm almost reluctant to post.
However... think martially for a moment. Your mirroring is an attempt to make some people stand out. Another way to think of that is that it's an attempt to make them overextend themselves. And it sounds like this person is doing exactly that. If they've already been suspended for a week, then someone is noticing what they're up to and not entirely happy about it. From a martial perspective, what you need to do is breathe and let it happen. Let them over extend. Let them call attention to themselves in this negative way. Your goal is to allow them to draw attention to themselves in order that someone else takes authoritative action against them. And that seems to be working, so let it.
I think it would be a mistake at this point to add anything else to the mix. Just let it steep & simmer for now. Relax, breathe, and let your previous casts do their work. Your goal here would seem to me to be to remain centered. If you overextend also, then you'll be competing for that negative attention.
If you want to add anything, consider shields or invisibility for your husband. But since I think that might easily slip over into overextention, my advice is to sit tight, chill, and ground anything that's left over. -
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Re: Need Some Suggestions
Mon, January 1, 2007 - 5:54 PMThank you. It's good advice. I've been doing spell castings on this matter for almost three of the four years this crap has gone on. I know it's working. One gossip found another job after getting two suspensions, but it seems to take just so long. And when something good happens, like one gossip leaving the company, the remaining gossips start claiming that he runs to HR with every little problem. Which is NOT true. He's not a complainer. A couple of people who like him HAVE gone to HR about it, but he never has.
The closest he's come to complaining to management was when they were redesigning the cube space, and he asked for a cube closer to his boss, and further from the other chemists. His reasoning was that he could get more done if he were away from "all the gossiping and visiting." He didn't get specific that the gossip was often about him. He's so nice that if he says something bad about someone, people who know him figure that persom must be horrible. He's always trying to see the good even in bad people.
So thank you for your good advice.
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Re: Need Some Suggestions
Fri, January 12, 2007 - 4:58 PMHave you tried casting a protection spell? The full moon is past but one can still be cast. Also mix up some protection oil to dab on the back of his neck. I like sandalwood, frankinsence and rose. You can replace the rose with a more masculine oil
It sounds like you are doing a good job and doing something nasty would just undone all the good you've done. I can only guess at your frustration but Chris is right take a deep breathe and let them continue to do their thing :-) -
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Re: Need Some Suggestions
Sun, January 14, 2007 - 1:47 AMThank you, Sonja.
Yes, I've done energy work for him with protection spells, and I'm making him a pocket piece. The jade is on my alter now, and I'll be working with it once our leather family gathering is over and I've taken down our Solstice Bush. (Or Christmas Tree, or whatever that overdecorated thing in my dining room should be called.)
Things seem to be coming to a boil. The owner of the company made a remark to my husband last week (in a meeting he was called into to explain some process to the executives) that, "You analytical guys definitely have job security." My husband thought it was odd because it's not the kind of thing he would normally have said. But he did think it a good omen.
And the major gossip has gotten stupid enough to make some disparging remarks in front of my husband's immediate boss (who appears to like my husband a lot based on his recent job evaluation.) So it's looking like there may be a gossip about to shoot himself in the foot pretty quick.
So yes, I guess the things I'm doing are working, I just need to learn patience.
Domina
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